Some people are simply the wrong match for you..

Recently I read a post: "10 painfully obvious truths everyone forgets too soon". 1 of the truth is what I have mentioned in title "Some people are simply the wrong match for you"

It's so true.. and we realise truth later after several experience.. we end up having wrong people around us most of the time and later cry for months when we find them wrong.. but sometimes even when we know the person is not right we will not be strong enough to let that person go out of our life.. During this time we need to remember one thing.. the person to whom we are holding on to is only making our life miserable. . We shouldn't force connections with people who makes us feel less than amazing..

Below I have just copied the content from the post:

"If someone makes you feel uncomfortable or insecure whenever you are with them, for whatever reason, they're probably not best friend material. If they make you feel like you can't be yourself or make you feel 'less than', don't pursue a connection with them. If you feel emotionally drained after hanging out them or feel even bit of anxiety when you think about them, listen to your intuition.  There are so many "right people"  for you, who energize you and inspires you to be your best self. So no point in forcing connection with people who are wrong for you."

So rightly said :-) :-) we just need to decide who is the one who makes us think positive and are always :-)

What kind of guy???

Yaaa... That's the common question i am asked these days... And i will be totally clueless :P :P Seriously i have no idea what kind of guy i need in my life.. 

Well, the basic requirements is there.. like he should be caring, understanding, should know me well, give me my personal space, like my friends cz my frnds r my life.. hmm.. that's all for now.. What else should i see.. Lookwise he need not be mr.world, but should look good when with me ;) i can't think of anything else..

I believe when the guy right for me comes in my life i will know.. :P :P

Funny incident

2 weeks back i was in Norway on a business trip.. I went with one of my team guy and manager.. 
one particular day, the guy was too sleepy after lunch and asked me to pinch him to wake him up.. I found it weird and pinched him.. my pinch as all my friends know is not that painful.. so it didnt wake him up.. and then he asked me to slap him or pinch him hard.. it was too weird request to fulfill.. so i told him i can't and carried on with my work.. when he forced too much i got pissed off and told him that i don't pinch anyone except my close friends.. Don't know why he was offended by that.. he got angry and stopped talking to me.. i thought he was joking and after a while tried to talk to him.. called him for coffee so that it will drive away his sleep.. But he was still not talking and said he will have only professional talks with me.. I was like what the hell.. and let him be as he liked and stopped talking. The day went on and we didnt talk to each other.

Everyday over there, morning i use to call him and wake him up. So as usual called him to wake him up only to get an answer that he got up long back and was getting ready. That made me angry. So i decided that if he is treating me as a colleague even i will do the same. That night he said he wants to discuss something with me. When he came with laptop i thought it was work related. But then i saw a notepad with few points and later got to know those were the points he made to ask sorry :O :O Well, he started off with his 1st point asking sorry for troubling me. 2nd point, sorry for getting angry. But then, he was still confused about why i didnt pinch him. It seems he found that weird and in fact googled for half an hour to check what is wrong with a girl pinching a guy :O :O I didn't know how to react.. Means who will google about such a topic.. and he gave analogy also.. saying that when someone is having fits, we need to pinch or slap that person hard to make sure the person doesn't go to unconscious state. But how is that even related to keeping him awake. 

Anyways, i narrated this to my friends and everyone found it funny :P even today i laugh thinking about the incident :P

Depressed, alone or just thinking too much

It took me 5 minutes to decide what exactly i want to write.. it's been long time since i wrote something and was confused where to start.. and then decided to write about my life before 1 year.. but didnt want to go back there.. Then thought life from past 1 year.. well it was nt that interesting to write anything abt past 1 year.. So finally decided to write abt my current state of mind..

Current state of mind.. hmmm.. well i am confused abt that too.. Either i am too depressed, feeling lonely or so jobless that i am getting all nonsense thoughts in mind :P 

Might be it's just the lack of activities to do.. or things to keep me busy.. I did join salsa.. it made me happy.. infact very happy.. i wanted to learn dancing from very long time.. and finally i joined.. and learnt little bit.. But then now what happened??? may b cz i am nt making use of what i learnt.. But i dont want to go to socials.. or perform on stage.. both makes me feel very conscious.. once in a while socials is fine.. but not always.. so what do i do now.. :( Guess i will just wait for level 3 to start, then i will think of what to do..

I am trying to read novels.. but getting bored of that too :( :( saturated by too much of reading.. and work.. that's like hell.. not the work.. but the work place.. ahh.. too irritating.. too much of politics.. all are not same what they show to be.. 

Need a break.. long break.. away from work.. away from routine.. something different..

This blog for sure looks gibberish.. or makes no sense.. ha ha.. that's my current state of mind :P :P